i cant sleep properly...need title of this movie.

There are daughters who play with their neighbors who happens to be all boys and i think the oldest daughter ends up marrying the eldest boy and then the second oldest..i think. Anyway, there's another daughter who hates the idea of marrying one of them and i think she's the best fighter out of her sisters and challenges the guy that wants to marry her in a fight and if he wins they get married??? Their dad prays all the time to the buddah statue for a baby boy because his wife is pregnant again...someone please?? I dont know if this scene is the same movie or a different one but there are boys who are getting punished by either their dad/master by hanging upside down on a pole and one of the boys gets a pot and shoves it down his pants before getting whipped on the butt.